tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-984330758590198929.post4541562768468288751..comments2023-07-15T08:56:14.052-07:00Comments on ::::::::::Becoming::::::::::: Dreaming my DeadDr. Joanne Cacciatorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10863060782827061955noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-984330758590198929.post-62335927301864327362010-10-02T09:09:25.708-07:002010-10-02T09:09:25.708-07:00Gorgeous! And to say that to speak of the emotion ...Gorgeous! And to say that to speak of the emotion would be vacuous and insufficient makes SO much sense. As always, thank you for sharing your journey with us. Peace.caitsmomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12526920268165723942noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-984330758590198929.post-63708792834858836072010-10-01T13:25:50.967-07:002010-10-01T13:25:50.967-07:00What a wonderful dream. I have had one dream of Li...What a wonderful dream. I have had one dream of Lillie Kay since she has died 9 months ago. But why I really wanted to write was the dream my mother had about my sister a couple months after she died 5 years ago. My mum had a dinner party for my late sister's friends shortly after she died so they could all remember and celebrate her life. A couple months later my mum had a dream about my sister. She said she was making her bed and she just appeared on it. My mum said she went to touch her and my sister said "No mom, you can't touch me. you can ask me questions, but you can't touch me." So my mum asked questions. She asked if she was present for the dinner party. My sister told her no and asked who was there. My mum told her all the friends and this girl name Becky was there as well. My sister interupted her in my mum's dream and said "Becky was there? That's surprising" and my mum couldn't remember why she said that. So she emailed another friend of my sister's named Lisa. Lisa said that she too was surprised Becky was there because she always canceled plans at the last minute. My mum would have no way of knowing that. I truly believe that was my sister speaking to my mum through her dream. What a blessing, Joanne, that you got to experience a similar dream about Cheyenne. Thank you for sharing that touching story. It made me cry. (((HUGS)))<br />-Kelly <br />Angel mommy from MISSUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11141805408960438881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-984330758590198929.post-50096798430699757392010-09-28T15:17:17.842-07:002010-09-28T15:17:17.842-07:00Wow. That is one of the most beautiful things I ha...Wow. That is one of the most beautiful things I have ever read. What a gift for you to have received. I am reassured to know that I'm not the only one who longs to dream of my lost child, but doesn't. My precious son has visited me only once in a dream. I will keep hoping all my life to see him again.<br />Thank you so much for sharing.Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16257277238236544458noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-984330758590198929.post-58652056604861181982010-09-28T09:15:35.893-07:002010-09-28T09:15:35.893-07:00Thank you everyone for your kindness, generosity, ...Thank you everyone for your kindness, generosity, and for reading. I try to be as transparent as I can while still maintaining some degree of intimacy with her.<br /><br />I appreciate all your sharings, and your children...Dr. Joanne Cacciatorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10863060782827061955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-984330758590198929.post-63824900427677339332010-09-28T07:53:49.614-07:002010-09-28T07:53:49.614-07:00Wow, what a dream. To be able to see and feel her....Wow, what a dream. To be able to see and feel her. I've only had 1 dream and in it I was delivering her again but this time I got to meet her alive first before she died. She didn't die in the dream b/c I woke up first before she did. But it was nice to be able to meet her alive in my dream.Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15431384515813384025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-984330758590198929.post-24878867772940147742010-09-28T06:42:36.771-07:002010-09-28T06:42:36.771-07:00(((((Joanne)))))
Thank you for sharing your amazin...(((((Joanne)))))<br />Thank you for sharing your amazing dream. I am so happy for you, that you were able to see her, hold her, feel her, tell her. I have dreamed of Theo only twice and one was very upsetting, the other I don't quite understand--I too spent many nights wishing and trying to will myself to dream of him, asking him to come to me in a dream. I stopped doing it. I just hope one day I will be lucky enough to have a similar experience. How beautiful--Thank you so much for sharing. What a powerful, beautiful experience. Some dreams are not "just" dreams.~The Helbert Fueglein Family~https://www.blogger.com/profile/07365723460650017240noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-984330758590198929.post-72750450994050914002010-09-27T23:47:19.945-07:002010-09-27T23:47:19.945-07:00((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Jo))))))))))))))) WOW...((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Jo))))))))))))))) WOW! No words. Just heART of heart of heart of heart! I definitely do not think that was *just* a dream. Though I do think this waking world is *just* a dream most days :) xoxoxoxo meKara Chipoletti Jones of GriefAndCreativity dot comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04110578035201758404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-984330758590198929.post-19238363156152911162010-09-27T22:32:23.237-07:002010-09-27T22:32:23.237-07:00Thank you Joanne for sharing such a personal story...Thank you Joanne for sharing such a personal story about Cheyanne. I am so very happy for you. It brings me to tears. I am envious of the wonderful "dream" and the feelings that it left you with. I am also hopeful, that I, too, will someday have the same feelings with my little Braden. Thank you again for sharing Cheyanne once again with all of us. If anyone deserved such a special "gift" it is YOU.freiwaldfamilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10961145587563769509noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-984330758590198929.post-86334284564106221432010-09-27T12:03:24.346-07:002010-09-27T12:03:24.346-07:00Jo, I read this earlier this morning, but I just r...Jo, I read this earlier this morning, but I just read it again. SO powerful, Jo.. I am so very happy that you and Chey finally had this incredible moment together. That you were able to say to her what you've always longed to say.. to see her, hold her, cry with her..<br />Indeed, there are no words at ALL for everything that this experience IS for you. Katie said something so true- "relieved for you." The moment you described is so elevated from anything we ever "normally" feel in this earth plane - so many profound emotions, such soul-deep meaning!<br />What an absolute miracle, Jo. Surely one that will be with you for all of your days, until you are with Chey once more. So beautiful. Thank you for sharing this with all of us.Nia's Mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18392727811950765543noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-984330758590198929.post-73743001321308496422010-09-27T10:16:37.090-07:002010-09-27T10:16:37.090-07:00Thank you so much for sharing this. I felt sincere...Thank you so much for sharing this. I felt sincere joy for you as I read your words. Such a beautiful gift. Again, thank you for sharing your experience. As always, your words are poetic and touching. I actually smiled as I read of your dream, and I felt your joy.<br /><br />And, I felt renewed hope as I read. Victoria's 14th birthday was Saturday. I have never met her in my dreams, and it's something I yearn for continuously. You waited 16 years for your special dream. I often wonder if I yearn for it less, will it happen sooner...as if I can trick the powers that be, the universe, or whoever and finally have my dream.Snarky Bellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17893940815826970998noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-984330758590198929.post-53137782051330492802010-09-27T09:35:56.826-07:002010-09-27T09:35:56.826-07:00Mostly, I just want to say, HOLY SHIT! Over and ov...Mostly, I just want to say, HOLY SHIT! Over and over again.<br /><br />Oh Jo! I am happy for you, envious of you, and relieved for you.<br /><br />What an amazing experience!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00618682630606049215noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-984330758590198929.post-51770282609250702352010-09-27T08:33:55.119-07:002010-09-27T08:33:55.119-07:00Wow, Christine. That entire sense of urgency is r...Wow, Christine. That entire sense of urgency is really disorienting isn't it? I don't know why this dream was so qualitatively different, but I am really glad I had it - I suppose it was time. I hope the same for you one day.Dr. Joanne Cacciatorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10863060782827061955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-984330758590198929.post-34429287245419275342010-09-27T08:27:02.826-07:002010-09-27T08:27:02.826-07:00I am in tears. This was so beautiful. Thinking of ...I am in tears. This was so beautiful. Thinking of you and Chey always.<br /><br />I have only had two dreams of Nora, one was right after she died. My grandmother was holding her saying she was okay. And the other.. not really a dream but I heard Nora calling for me, urgently .. I awoke but felt very disconnected from Nora. I have always wished to dream more, to hold her, to speak to her.. but that has not happened.<br /><br />much love Jo.Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03297337971762403432noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-984330758590198929.post-40764883905632662982010-09-27T08:21:19.923-07:002010-09-27T08:21:19.923-07:00Thank you for reading Amy... I'm hoping this ...Thank you for reading Amy... I'm hoping this feeling lasts, and holding on like you with your dreams of Liam.Dr. Joanne Cacciatorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10863060782827061955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-984330758590198929.post-74578398988353118042010-09-27T08:15:49.834-07:002010-09-27T08:15:49.834-07:00Wow- that is a powerful dream. I'm so glad you...Wow- that is a powerful dream. I'm so glad you were able to touch her, feel her.... <br /><br />I treasure those rare dreams where I can feel my mom or even rarer, Liam. Each time I hold onto the feeling until it sinks away into the fog of daylight. <br /><br />Thank you for sharing this intimate dream with us. <br /><br />AmyAmyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03740847681453723883noreply@blogger.com